A toddler is someone who’ll wind up and clock you in the face and then sweetly ask ‘you k?’.
My toddler’s understanding of the world has tripled, maybe even quadrupled, in the last few months and now I live with a master manipulator who seems to plans for me at all times of the day and night.
Shortly after my second son was born my older one started to wake up in the night and call me and my husband into his room for various reasons. He knew he had us over a barrel because we were desperate to keep him from waking the baby.
His requests ranged from reasonable ones like a hug, to totally unreasonable ones like being taken downstairs to watch what we refer to as B-U-B-B-L-E G-U-P-P-I-E-S.
No matter where you stand on screen time you are likely against it at 3am but at my most sleep deprived I fantasized about a TV attached to his crib that would play The Puppy and the Ring non-stop.
Waking up with both kids one after another in the night my husband and I found ourselves trying to reason with my toddler. Begging him to ‘cry quietly’ or bribing him with countless renditions of Little Blue Truck. And obeying hie to every command (which lately is to read from the floor while he sits alone in the recliner like King tut). But no matter what we promise he’s usually up again before the sun.
I have good days but I also have days where I loose everything, am late for everything, and can’t make decisions. Whenever I find myself wondering what’s wrong with me? I am then reminded that I have had very few uninterrupted nights sincte I got pregnant with my now two year old.
Before you give me advice know that I have researched everything from night terrors to sleep regression. We have meticulously combed over his sleep habits, diet, and daytime activities for clues. What I have to conclude is that he’s in charge and he’s using this form of torture to assert his absolute authority.
Think that’s too mean? Go a week without sleep and we’ll talk.